Here is something I recently discovered: Couch surfing. And apparently there is a movement for it [ like everything else in America]. It brings to mind the ‘On the Road’ feelings of the 50s and 60s, of hippies or something just thumbing it across the US, crashing here and there. But in today’s easily scared and highly untrusting society, it amazes me that this is still something to be done. It is like picking up a hitchhiker, only you are letting them into your home, and you are completely vulnerable. So it is worse than picking up a hitchhiker! To heck with Jack Kerouac!
However, to look at www.couchsurfing.com, you get the feeling that maybe not everyone in the world is distrustful and skeptical. This website is the couch surfer’s portal, where you can find couches to sleep on as well as volunteer your own couch to a stranger. Complete with stats testifying to the success of couch surfing, couchsurfing.com is full of testimonies from real people-surfers and couch-givers-that gives a personal view to this phenomenon.
Staying with strangers isn’t new to society. Years ago when many traveled on foot and accomodations were scarce, a light in the window of a home meant a place to stay for the night and hopefully, something to eat. But times have changed and post 9-11, would anyone even conceive of allowing a complete stranger in to their home to sleep?
I guess so.
But in a way it makes sense to on a couple of levels. One, basically normal Americans want to believe in the best in people, and with the internet in nearly every home, doing a background check on a person isn’t hard anymore. You can check out your couch surfer that way, and ease your mind a bit. This frees people up to take the chance of offering their couch or considering this as a viable lodging alternative. Two, it is kind of fun to meet a new person for a bit, cheap entertainment if you will. Take some precautions inside the home in the event things turn sour, but enjoy learning from and about your new houseguest. Many couch surfers like to help out around the house-one I know of built shelving and did odd jobs in exchange for lodging-or can entertain children, help cook, etc. It is like having the excitement of Aunt Martha coming, without the annoyance of her staying 3 weeks! By the time the novelty wears off, your guest is on their way to another couch. And third, in this depression, oh wait, I am sorry- economic downturn- cheaper modes of travel and transportation are becoming increasingly popular. A free couch isn’t the Ritz, but it will do!
Who would have thought that in this school-shooting, child-molesting, terror level world, people would want to set up housekeeping in a stranger’s living room for a night, or that people would allow a stranger to drowse on the davenport? I didn’t.
That’s pretty cool.
For further exploring, check out www.couchsurfing.com I am in no way affiliated with this site, no receive any type of compensation for mentioning them.